feat(remoteingress): derive effective remote ingress listen ports from route configs and expose them via ops API

ts/classes.dcrouter.ts

@@ -955,10 +955,15 @@ export class DcRouter {
     
     // Update configuration
     this.options.smartProxyConfig = config;
-    
+
+    // Update routes on RemoteIngressManager so derived ports stay in sync
+    if (this.remoteIngressManager && config.routes) {
+      this.remoteIngressManager.setRoutes(config.routes as any[]);
+    }
+
     // Start new SmartProxy with updated configuration (will include email routes if configured)
     await this.setupSmartProxy();
-    
+
     console.log('SmartProxy configuration updated');
   }
   
@@ -1587,6 +1592,10 @@ export class DcRouter {
     this.remoteIngressManager = new RemoteIngressManager(this.storageManager);
     await this.remoteIngressManager.initialize();
 
+    // Pass current routes so the manager can derive edge ports from remoteIngress-tagged routes
+    const currentRoutes = this.options.smartProxyConfig?.routes || [];
+    this.remoteIngressManager.setRoutes(currentRoutes as any[]);
+
     // Create and start the tunnel manager
     this.tunnelManager = new TunnelManager(this.remoteIngressManager, {
       tunnelPort: this.options.remoteIngressConfig.tunnelPort ?? 8443,