feat(remoteingress): include listenPorts for allowed edges sent to the Rust hub and always resync allowed edges when edge properties change

ts/opsserver/handlers/remoteingress.handler.ts

@@ -117,8 +117,8 @@ export class RemoteIngressHandler {
             return { success: false, edge: null as any };
           }
 
-          // Sync allowed edges if enabled status changed
-          if (tunnelManager && dataArg.enabled !== undefined) {
+          // Sync allowed edges — ports, tags, or enabled may have changed
+          if (tunnelManager) {
             await tunnelManager.syncAllowedEdges();
           }